Free yourself from anger, pain, and the past
Have you ever felt betrayed, hurt, or wronged? Are you struggling to get over a nasty divorce, the death of a loved one, a shattered friendship, or broken family ties? This book will help you deal with conflicted emotions and find it in your heart to forgive. Written by Dr. Eileen R. Borris-Dunchunstang, an internationally known speaker on conflict resolution and trauma recovery,Finding Forgivenessoffers a remarkably sensitive yet powerful approach to healing your heart, lifting your spirit, and finding the power to love, grow, and forgive.
The 7 Steps Toward Forgiveness
- Clear your mindof negative thoughts that get in the way of your happiness.
- Uncover your feelingsof bitterness, betrayal, victimization, and blame.
- Let go of your angerand move on with your life.
- Work through your guiltand learn to forgive yourself as well as others.
- Reframe the situationthat hurt you and restore your faith in others.
- Absorb the painof the past without the need for apologies or revenge.
- Gain inner peacethrough newfound compassion, understanding, and acceptance. Foreword
by His Holiness the Dalai Lama
Introduction
Why Should We Forgive
Chapter 1: How do We Forgive
Chatper 2: Learning to Forgive
Chapter 3: Beginning the Journey
Chapter 4: Developing Patience
Chapter 5: Poor Me
Chapter 6: Working with Anger
Chapter 7: Understanding the Impact of Your Guilt
Chapter 8: Stop Running and Face Your Guilt
Chapter 9: Releasing Our Pain
Chapter 10: Listening Within
Chapter 11: Breaking Cycles of Violence
Chapter 12: The Power of Love
Chapter 13: A Justice that Heals
Chapter 14: With Love We Can Heal the Future
Chapter 15: What You Can Do For Yourself
Eileen R. Borris-Dunchunstang, Ed.D.,isan internationally renowned speaker and trainer in forgiveness,reconciliationl£‡