Playing Fair: A Guide to Nonmonogamy for Men into Women [Paperback]

Good news, my guy! Alternatives to the strict limitations of monogamy await. By understanding and practicing polyamory, you can be empowered to live the limit of your romantic appetites and build networks of love that nourish and challenge you. But this new frontier of love will test you. Can you navigate discussions of jealousy with responsibility and care? Are you prepared to overthrow self-sabotaging patterns of neglect and deception? Can you employ your strength and confidence to shoulder the emotional duties of multiple relationships? If yes, then this is the book for you. Within, you'll learn the skills and tools you'll need to navigate the waters of conscientious nonmonogamy. This is a manual for those in it for more than the love of the game.

"In my 30 years of nonmonogamous relationships, I’ve made just about every mistake there is to make. I wish I’d had a book likePlaying Fairto get me going in the right direction all those years ago.” —Franklin Veaux, co-author,More Than TwoandThe Game Changer

"Pepper’s direct yet compassionate guidance provides apt compensation for the short shrift our society often gives men in terms of self-awareness, empathy, and relationship communication. This book should be required reading for all straight or bi men seeking healthy relationships of any kind!” —Cunning Minx, creator, thePolyamory Weeklypodcast

"Nonmonogamy has needed this book and didn’t even know it. Pepper Mint offers gentle and frank advice for men who date women on how to ethically navigate nonmonogamy while being aware of power structures and gendered social norms. By addressing and guiding the reader through complex emotional labor,Playing Fairmodels how to be a supportive partner to women while being supportive to the reader." —Kitty Stryker, editor,Ask: Building Consent Culture

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