Love & Betrayal Broken Trust in Intimate Relationships [Paperback]

"A book of profound insight and wisdom, written not just for those who have been betrayed, but for anyone who wants to build deeper, more trusting relationships."
SUSAN M. CAMPBELL, Ph.D.
Author of THE COUPLES JOURNEY
LOVE & BETRAYAL explores the many forms betrayal can take, from keeping secrets and negative gossip to breaking promises and sexual infidelity. In the process, you can discover how to heal the wounds of past betrayals, what steps to take to forgive both yourself and your betrayer, and how to cultivate a climate of love and trust in your current relationships.John Amodeo, PhD,has more than 20 years’ experience assisting individuals and couples with their journey toward healing, growth, and satisfying relationships. He is a licensed marriage, family, and child counselor. Dr. Amodeo is coauthor ofBeing Intimate: A Guide to Successful Relationshipsand author of Love & BetrayalandDancing with Fire, and has taught and lectured widely.Introduction
 
On and on the rain will fall
Like tears from a star like tears from a star
On and on the rain will say
How fragile we are how fragile we are
From “Fragile” by STING
 
RELATIONSHIPS are difficult. We want to feel cherished and understood. And we want love and intimacy to endure—for a lifetime. Sadly, love relationships often seem to fall short of their tender promise, leaving us wounded, disillusioned, and discouraged. Do we dare wonder if there is a sequel to the bitter taste of disappointed love?
 
This book begins with the simple recognition that love relationships can be tricky, if not treacherous. Despite our sweetest vision of what is possible, intimacy can be hazardous to our health. There is no ultimate safety or security in the arena of relationship. Once we accept that, we’re ready for the good news: There is a depth, delight, and richness that is truly possible lÃC