We all suffer in varying degrees at times in our lives. Our suffering is mostly due to life circumstance, loss, or other peoples behavior toward us. While deeper probing into our psyche with a therapist or plunging ourselves into the depths of self-discovery can yield greater self-understanding and significant life change, this simple guide offers immediate solutions that do not require change in the people around us, or our life circumstance. Even so, these easy techniques most often result in a productive change in both.